Walk long enough in an urban neighborhood and you'll be approached by someone asking for something - money for food, money for bus fare, or just plain money. Some have a story to tell or a sign that tells the story of why they need your money. Others simply just ask for it with no explanation other than, "I need it".
These types of folks always present a bit of a moral dilemma for me when I stop to think about it. Many times I just walk past without even really seeing them. But when I do pause to actually acknowledge them I have a quick debate in my head. Am I really going to help them by giving them money? Do they really need it? Instead of cash should I take them into the restaurant and buy them food so that I'm really sure they are spending the money wisely?
And then of course, WWJD? That's the one that makes my head hurt because deep down inside I'm pretty sure that Jesus wouldn't pretend they don't exist but would some how find a way to minister to them. But I feel ill-equipped and short on time, so maybe the least I should do is give them money?
This issue came up in our Sunday School class today because we're doing a mission project for refugees. The organization we're fundraising for has a scripture quote as part of their description of why they do what they do. It's Hebrews 13:2 "Do not neglect hospitality, for through it some have unknowingly entertained angels". I told my 7th & 8th graders that I always wondered about that when I am approached by a person asking for a handout. I was quite surprised by the response. Apparently yesterday at the UCC gathering for youth this very issue came up. And the general consensus was to NOT give people money because so many of them are scam artists, use it for illegal/unhealthy behaviors, etc.
Not only do I disagree with this position, I find it offensive as a Christian and am embarrassed that it was the advice given to the youth by our denominational leadership. Part of the rationale was that if you/the church gives money to the people who ask that aren't worthy then there won't be any money left to give those that truly are in need. But here's my question - how and who will determine who's really in need and therefore "worthy" of your hospitality? While no one wants to be taken advantage of, if I'm giving out of the abundance of blessing that I believe I've received from the Lord, my job is to love my neighbor, not judge him/her to see if they are fit to receive my love.
I'm not saying that walking around giving out cash is the answer. Certainly there are systemic issues that need to be addressed to clean up the streets - to get the people who really need help connected with resources, and to lock up those who are basically stealing by scamming good hearted folk. But I don't feel the need to concern myself with that. I love because first I was loved. And while it would probably be better to have the time and fearlessness to engage all the people who approach me and minister to them individually, sometimes a dollar or some spare change is the best I can do. It feels very wrong to not at least do that.
Some good points and a tough issue. I thought of this recently when attending a Women of Faith convention. So many panhandlers around the arena and so few people stopping to give.
ReplyDeleteI agree that there are scam artists, but you're right... Who am I to judge that?